Some thoughts to share..

Last night I was reading thru all my old posts and notice 1 thing – My English is getting from bad to worse. WTF -_-“.. It seems quite obvious I kind of lost touch the moves since I move to back to home ground of “singlish”.. Don’t get me wrong.. Never in my thoughts look down those who speak singlish as their 1st lang.. In fact I do enjoy using singlish.. It’s a quite of bond I never get to have when chatting with ang mos..

When having conversation with those ang mos, most likely you will be using terms like:
Damm
I feel you
Get my drift

But doing with locals it tend to be more fun.. We get to uses stuff like wah liao, knn.. cb & etc… Once when I was in San Fran airport and from far I heard someone using the word “lah”.. Instantly I turn around and saw a couple trying to do some shopping and somehow the hubby did look @ my direction as well.. We both give a smile to each other. Guess both knows each of us from the same mother tougue huh? :P

Many years ago I heard someone telling me this – You see chinese from china group together and help each other.. Same for most of the countryman who will do likewise when needed.. However Singaporean are the lest few who don’t and you should be the last person to think of if helps needed.

Sadly but true – I kinda agree with this statement.. Somehow for good or worst.. Singaporean are kind to people who they do not know.. You can see we flocking over to help someone plight when it’s on news.. But when come to friends?? Errrr….. Anyway I hardly get to meet any Singaporean out of this little island.. Think my record so far is only – twice.. hmm we are really a minority compare with others hor? lol

Someone dropped an comment earlier and asked if I can share tips or 2 on how to tackle gals.. or aka sianz chiobu in singapore context. (Singlish again.. hehe).. To be frank – I doubt I’m any good in doing that. Maybe my luck was kinda lucky or for some reasons, there’s some kind of looks/feeling I do give ladies… Maybe this should be answered by ladies instead of me..

However as ages keep adding more to my belt.. I notice me no longer like before where all I can is get into some babes skirt and once done deal – Secretly telling myself “YEAH!!!”… That was those days and I think most people are pretty much the same as me. Nowadays I more keen in chemistry.. get connected and rapports.. I may be kissing 1 but that doesn’t mean I’m connected to her. It’s hard to explain…

Look good plus a good speaker does help a lot.. Able to crack silly jokes will be a plus to gain attention as well.. However I think what most gals see are 男人味…. This is something that either you got or don’t.. Alternativesly, you can choose to be “special” one among the group.. Or should I say looks weird among the gang.. It’s strange you see. My friend was got pickup and get lucky in the club. His move? Nothing.. Sitting down there doing nothing or even joining us in a group and yet this babe choose him than anyone else.. Her point? He’s so quiet and kinda attrached by him..

I think most importantly is be yourself. It pointless if you tried to be cool and be someone who ain’t yourself. You may get lucky on the 1st night meeting a gal of yourself but how long can it last?

Oh ya.. I notice there are getting more and more sex blogs nowadays.. Plus Gary Ng who’s now leading the pack of everyone of us. It seem blogging that 1 sex live isn’t that taboo anymore..